This week’s question via The Soul Movement Hub comes from a transformational coach in South Africa who prefers to remain anonymous. I will address her as Denise.
Hi Tal, I used to be in the corporate world before I moved into coaching (after my divorce). I’ve been through health issues, I’ve been through near bankruptcy…and on the flip side I’ve written books, painted a deck of oracle cards and come up with some pretty amazing stuff. Let’s just say I’ve walked a path. And yet, I still can’t seem to ‘make a living’ – I’ve really worked on myself to the point that I feel that I am enough now and I’ve done what I can do. Is there anything I’m doing that is blocking me from moving forward? Much love, Denise
I hopped over to your website Denise, and will affirm that YOU have indeed come up with some pretty amazing stuff that is more than ready to be shared in a big way with the world. You have a beautiful story, a beautiful energy, and ‘copy’ on your website that made me want to meet you. You are more than cooked to get out there in a big way – to not only ‘make a living’, but to thrive!
When I tune in for guidance (and please tune into your own intuition as well, to check if this resonates for you, ok!), it feels like you are more than ready for a new season in your life – a season for HIGH VISIBILITY and leverage in a big way. You have sown the seeds and they have blossomed. Now it is time to let others know about the beautiful garden you have grown so they too can enjoy the fruits (after all, ‘sharing is caring’ –compliments of shareaholic!).
At this point I would invite you to focus on doing whatever it takes to release any old “energetic residue” – on both an individual, collective and ancestral level – that may be holding you back from fully ‘stepping out’ and becoming visible in a big way! There may be a part of you that feels unsafe to truly ‘stand out’…. or a part of your ancestral or cultural patterning that deems standing out as “boastful” or “selfish” or “at the cost of others” etc. These subconscious dynamics can be really sneaky and illusive, especially since outwardly you appear to have all your ducks in a row (aka a book, products, fantastic programs). I happen to know alot about these ‘visibility’ dynamics as they were so sneaky in my own process ….and sabotaged my success for many years (and that was after I had created some beautiful products and offerings into which I had poured my heart, soul and substantial financial resources).
On a strategic level, I would encourage you to begin focusing on those strategies and actions that are highly effective in getting YOU and your products out into the world. For example, do you know how to orchestrate a successful launch (both online and off), co-create successful joint venture partnerships, package and present your programs in a way that your tribe will want to purchase them? And if you ARE familiar with these strategies, how can you align your actions with what you already know (Hint: If you are not taking action on what you know, your subconscious patterning IS running the show!)?
In my own experience, and in working with hundreds of clients, I have keenly observed that strategy is responsible for 10 percent of our success….. and ‘energetic alignmen’t (our so called “inner game”) for the remaining 90.
Believe me, we could strategize a super leveraged business plan for you in a few hours, but if you have a conflicting energetic entanglement running below the radar of your awareness, it WILL pull against any ‘will power’ or action you have going on. It will create an underlying tension, that if strong enough, will ultimately sabotage your forward movement or momentum.
And just to make sure we’re on the same page, when I speak of an ‘energetic entanglement’, I am not alluding to your belief system alone, but rather to an ‘energetic entanglement’ in your ‘soul field™’ . Our soul field™ is a matrix or ‘energetic soup’ that holds within it every memory and/or impulse connected to our individual and ancestral soul throughout all time. It is literally the energetic blood that flows through us, informing every level of our well-being. When this so called energetic blood is ‘contaminated’, it affects our entire ‘body’ or life! The more I have come to ‘work’ with this core level of being, the more humble I have become in the face of the greater ‘scheme of things’ or ‘soul impulse’ that informs our life.
So Denise, I support you in taking care of both the strategic and energetic alignment needed to propel your visibility forward. I am a big fan of addressing both these levels simultaneously to affectively orchestrate palpable results! If you need support with both these levels (none of us have traveled this journey alone!), I invite you to schedule a Strategy Session wherein we can open up to your vision, identify your specific blocks, and pinpoint which course of action could most effectively transport you from where you are now to where you want to be!
You said it. You know you are enough and this IS your time to thrive and make this year YOUR breakthrough year!
With love and heart,
